Oat Banana Muffins

Just another one of those mornings I didn’t want the usual. One of my old time favorite recipes that is quick and yummy is this oat banana muffin recipe. Did I mention you can add chocolate chips on the top? Delicious. It is super soft, filling, and soooo good. I usually double the recipe and if I do that I do half cup almond butter and half cup of coconut oil. If I don’t have almond butter I do coconut oil. I also don’t put as much honey in it because bananas and chocolate already make it sweet. Let me know what you think. Hope you enjoy it with coffee!


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It’s been a weak week. It’s so true when you don’t spend time alone with God everyday other things creep in. It all started for me being hurt from others. Then struggling with isolation from others and being home gets to me so much. It’s been depressing when I can’t do much moving and then all I want to do is be alone and be relaxed. Its been hard for me to go to God with my frustrations. I know I’m not doing things right, but what I realized more is that when I do have a hard time going to God when I feel hurt and overwhelmed is that I don’t believe him when He says He is always faithful and loving.

Andrew has been really trying to be here for me. Trying to pray for me. Trying to encourage me of what God is doing in my life. But I can’t agree to pray with him most times. His words I don’t find encouraging. I just feel like it’s God trying to correct me 24/7 and I don’t find it loving. I can’t pray sometimes to Him because of the hurt.

Spending time in His word tonight helped a lot and got me refocused on Him. I’m still unsure of which is life happenings or Him purposefully teaching me a life lesson. I know that all He wants is for us to spend time with Him and that’s our goal. Our purpose is found in Him, but I still feel empty and think He doesn’t want me to do anything. That’s not biblical and doesn’t make sense either. So how to find the balance? What’s His will? What if it’s my personal weaknesses getting in the way? What is the truth  behind all of what is all happening? I’m praying for mercy hoping for grace in this time of not understanding and not grasping fully God’s love for me when I am confused by how He is showing it. I want to believe that He still loves me when I get frustrated with confusion. I hope I can just have grace from people and not judgement.  I want sympathy and help, not correction and point the finger at my faults. Because I want the truth but I’m so confused what is true and not.

God please open my eyes and mind to understand and know the difference. God please have patients with me when I am weak and a sinner. Help me to understand and have hope for now and the future. Amen

Shampoo, Foundation, Mas…


This week I got hit with the finance blues. Money has been super tight and I am starting to run out of everything. Everything to make me look like I am put together when I feel crummy.  Especially, at my last pregnancy stages which are really making me depressed. I ran out of hair product, makeup, and clothes all at the same time! Why????!!

To sum up me this week, I’ve been annoyed with my body and it’s making me feel self conscious. The other day I got annoyed with Andrew for not saying, “Go ahead and go use the credit card on what you need/want.” Then I was mad when that didn’t happen which I knew was being impatient. Then I was not praying about it because I thought it was stupid. Thinking God was trying to teach me a life lesson through this and not caring about my silly need of wanting hair product, makeup, and clothes. It has totally thrown me out of whack and it made me distant from my Father.

All I want to say is this, it is not to silly for the Lord. God cares about our every need. He always provides. It’s true, things I never thought I would get ( or any time soon) God has provided. He will provide in a way that will be perfect. God loves you and me and wants to hear every little prayer. Don’t fall short in praying to him just because it isn’t something more “important.” He wants us to take everything to him like our day to day needs. Even if it’s needing money to go buy shampoo, foundation, mascara, pants, and shirts. Ugh, I could go on…. ;p

A Thought on Marriage

So I have a friend getting married this next weekend. He and I have talked a lot about what to expect and he has asked a lot about different aspects of my marriage over the last five years with Rachel. These chats have been good, but ultimately my experience will mean nothing to the battles that he will face in his own marriage. With marriage being as tough as it is, its no wonder the divorce rate is so high especially with my short sighted generation. But there are two things that I must remind myself of to keep me balanced and loving the love of my life.

First, I think we all perceive or claim that we are characterized by this but who’s really fooling them self about patients. My pastor recently described patients from its Greek or Latin root meaning to be “long suffering with love.” Hello, I can’t say that about myself. I will interact with a coworker and turn right around and let someone know how frustrated I am. It’s not in any human being nature to be long suffering, let alone long suffering with love. And yet, this is a lesson that God wanted to teach me in life which is why he decided I should take on the intimacy of marriage at a younger age than most of my peers.

Second is giving grace. Because who really merits that kiss goodnight and a back rub while making dutch ovens under the covers. Or how can I expect my wife to love me every time I break my promise of when I will be coming home. Grace is giving unmerited favor, just as God gave Christ as our payment. I love my wife, but I do struggle at times acting out with such grace.

But really, Marriage has been one of the greatest changes in my life and brought maturity in a way that I would have neglected before. I love my wife and know that we have a long while to go until one of us kicks the bucket and so much more of me will be needed to make all this work. I just thank God that He is good and will provide all that I need when storms come…. or more children, they challenge me to. But as the great philosopher Jim Gaffigan says that his wife is the best thing that ever happened to him and with each child he becomes a better man. This is my marriage, what about yours?

My Social Issues

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Alright, I had a melt down. I think I am finally figuring out the pattern. It’s being isolated and not getting a break. This week I had almost every day a play date or some sort of outing which I would been able to get out and have a little freedom. This week mostly everything got canceled. Unfortunately, stuff like this happens even with my efforts to get out and find some social time. When it doesn’t happen it really comes back at me, because I am that person that does well with interaction and I need a break. Sounds totally reasonable, right?

One issue I come up with is that I am not one of those moms that just because I need a social life I am not going to do things that are a typical mom thing to do. I don’t know what other word to put it. I don’t mean to be harsh. I am a rebel when it comes to being different in some situations.  I am not a library reading/ singing along mom, I am not a mom that does MOPS ( maybe if my own church had one), and I don’t do mass public places/ money activities. If you like that sort of thing. Good for you! I wish I could be you! My social life would be so much more easier. I personally hate them, I don’t feel comfortable mentally and physically in those  environments. I  do try them, but why be miserable with doing things that are not for me?

What is their for a mom in this culture? I would love to go nature hiking, exploring with my kids, and do artsy things, but it’s just not time for me to do that yet. My kids are not at that age for certain activities and my thirty-two week prego belly just can’t function with two toddlers. Plus all that extra needed energy. What do you mommas do that love nature and don’t want to get trapped into the norm of just doing stuff just because? Let’s get creative. Let’s discover what we are uniquely creatively called to be as a woman and a momma. How can we thrive in what God gives to us and enjoy life? Let’s help each other out and think outside the box of what to do, instead of doing things that culture only hands to us. Who wants to bear much fruit with our labor (raising hand)!?

Whenever I get confused about what a stay home mom is suppose to look like, I think of the women in Proverbs 31. It’s a short chapter, I would advise you to read it( I just reread it again). It displays all the things that this women of the Lord was praised over. She did more than just find socialization, entertain her children, and keep the house clean. She worked to provide her home with good things, she gardens and provides for her workers and family, she helps others in need, she dresses herself well and keeps healthy and strong, she sells clothes that she makes, and teaches kindness, she fears the Lord, and EVERYONE calls her blessed.

SHE’S SO AWESOME! I want to be like this woman! Who is fruitful.  Look at all the things she does! I don’t know about you, but I am jazzed right now and encouraged by this woman.  It definitely, gives me ideas of all the other possible Biblical things that a women of God can do with her time. We don’t have to get in that trap of what we think a momma social life is suppose to look like. Our social life doesn’t have to evolve around our children. Our lives doesn’t have to priorities keeping our children happy 24/7. It’s not our purpose. I want to stop beating myself up when I don’t socialize like another mom does. What I am suppose to all do for my kids. What a stay at home mom “doesn’t do.” All the answers are in the Word of God!


  • What do you think God is calling you to do individually?
  • What is your favorite daily routine you would like to share on here? I would love to get some ideas. 🙂

My Mission Trip To England


Twenty-six weeks pregnant and I made it back home!  To be really honest, my experience was a bit stressful physically and also spiritually hard. But God totally worked in them and now see it as a positive. Many people that I see that come back from mission trips were on a mountain top experience. That was just not me when I came back. I mostly came back tired and a bit overwhelmed of all that I absorbed. Writing this has actually made me see exactly what God did and why.  I am grateful that the experience was not a mountain top experience because some mistakes I’ve made from the past is believing God is only awesomely real in only high awesome experiences. This trip made me see that God can be awesomely real in low experiences too. The theme for my trip was noticing how God is with me in every day to day life. The way I felt like England was not a thrill experience, but very much throwing me in an uncomfortable setting. I loved the people I met and I learned some very important realistic truths about what a full time ministry looks like. Everyday I struggled what each day looked like and how I would have to be willing at anytime to die to self for Christ. I know I needed to be in England to learn some important truths. In order to do that, God had to pull me away from all my comforts and be uncomfortable. So in every situation I had to ask him for help, and he would surprised me in the way he would answer me back quickly or wouldn’t and I had to believe He was working when I didn’t see it.

I urge you again to witness that God demands nothing, asks no price, and exacts no payment.

 Charles Spurgeon

Leading up to Creation Fest I thought I really needed to get some things together before I was able to reach out and do stuff for Christ. I was hoping in England God would reveal some unanswered prayers. Then when I was there not knowing if he would or not, I asked Him to help me with some major anxiety I was having before the trip. I didn’t know exactly where it was coming from, but really wanted a break through before I got home. By his grace He did.  One of the pastors that spoke talked about how we know we are saved and what that looks like. In my nineteen years of being in the Lord, I never fully understood the impact of grace and how God freely gives us His full access without  doing works to compensate.  I was constantly hard on myself thinking I was constantly failing the expectations or potential that God had for me. The freeing words were, “We are allowed to do stuff for God, but we were meant to worship God. Angels get to do stuff for God. Until we understand that we are going to feel empty. God controls our lives, we can’t mess up His plan, but we can derail it.” During my trip I was reading the book of Grace by Spurgeon. He repeats over and over again how there is nothing we can do to earn grace. I can’t tell you how freeing that was for me. Before my trip, God was already working in my life in putting me in the place to practice worship and nothing else. Because he was closing every door I was feeling empty. After the pastors sermon I felt lead to get prayed over. It wasn’t a powerful prayer, but something was different in my soul.

Go as you are.

A profound way of God showing me that this event was all about Him; and not me, are these words. Go as you are. They were encouraging, but I did not expect it to be literal. I was stressing over doing things with my own strength such as, going up to a stranger and sharing about Christ. I was freaking out because I hadn’t done anything like that before. I kept thinking I had to be someone I wasn’t and I was worried about feeling guilty or condemning myself. This of course never happened, because it’s not what God called me to do while I was there. I didn’t realize until later that God literally wanted me to go as I was. He waited until I felt comfortable in my setting and led me and brought me people in my setting where I was serving. I didn’t do anything but be myself, be open to God’s leading, and He did the rest. It was very much a confirmation of when I gave my life to the Lord. That I would be His servant, becoming humbled, and lifting up those that needed encouragement.

Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.

Ephesians 3:17-19

My favorite example of God’s power to provide was the last day of Creation Fest. I caught a cold the day before and I couldn’t decide what to do. I wanted to go back and see the event through, but at the same time I felt sick and it was getting worse. I still had a bunch of traveling and the two day touring of England that was in front of me. I knew I needed rest, but I wanted to say goodbye to people I met. I honestly, told God that if He wanted me to go I would have to feel recovered, otherwise I was staying at the cottage to get rest. I was having a hard time being honest in that prayer. I was really frustrated with the decision and was starting to have guilt and condemnation on myself. I didn’t feel better and everyone left the cottages. An hour went by and I received a text. It was from one of my team mates who I was serving with. We had planned to have a little Bible study before our shift together that day and she found out I was sick and was staying behind. In her text she offered to come by the cottage and hang out and do the Bible study with me. And if I felt up to it, she would bring me to the event to do my last shift then bring me back to the cottage. She was English and had a car to drive. God totally answered my prayer and knew my thoughts. I had to wait a little while for my answer, but God totally heard me. It was such a sweet gift and God proved to me again that He is faithful and capable of providing for me.


I came home still holding on to my new belief that God is with me and can meet my daily needs. He doesn’t demand or require anything to show is love and grace. My faith in the Lord has grown to a different level of understanding more of His grace and the full access I have of Him. I am very grateful for all the hard emotional stretching this trip to England has put me through. haha.